Our Practice
Our meetings are held the second and fourth Sunday of every month in Port
Huron at Studio 1219 and every Tuesday at Alternative Connections in Marysville.
Please click on "Schedule of Events" for the exact dates and times.
Please wear comfortable, loose fitting clothes. Loud colors can be
distracting. Chairs and floor cushions are available for our meditations.
We
practice sitting and walking meditation in the traditon of Thich Nhat
Hanh
the Vietnamese Buddhist teacher, which emphasizes
mindfulness.
According to The Mindfulness Bell, the national publication and website
of The Community of Mindful Living, "To be mindful means to dwell deeply
in the present moment, to be aware of what is going on within and
around us.
Practicing mindfulness cultivates understanding, love,
compassion and joy.
This practice helps us to take care of and transform suffering in our
lives and in our society."
In Port Huron we normally sit for around twenty-five minutes, followed by fifteen
mintues of walking medition and another, shorter period of sitting meditation.
Simple instructions are offered to newcomers. We recite the three refuges
and sometimes there is a reading. Once a month we recite The Fourteen
Mindfulness Trainings, which are given below.
On
alternate weeks we will view a dharma talk video or there will be a
presentation
and discussion. Other activities are planned
throughout the year. Please see the
schedule for details. Click here for schedule.
The Marysville meetings have a somewhat different format and consist of
sitting
and walking meditation with a short dharma. discussion.
The
Fourteen Mindfulness Trainings
The
Fourteen Mindfulness Trainings were developed by Thich Nhat Hanh for
his practice community, The Order of Interbeing. They are guidelines
for a happy and peaceful life as individuals, families, communities,
nations. We have modified them a little because we are not monks or nuns.
:
The
First Mindfulness Training
Openness
Aware
of the suffering created by fanaticism and intolerance, we are determined
not to be idolatrous about or bound to any doctrine, theory, or ideology.
These teachings are guiding means to help us learn to look deeply and
to develop our understanding and comparssion. They are not doctrines
to fight, kill or die for.
The
Second Mindfulness Training
Nonattachment from views
Aware
of the suffering created by attachment to views and wrong perceptions,
we are determined to avoid being narrow-minded and bound to present
views. We shall learn and practice nonattachment from views in order
to be open to others' insights and experiences. We are aware that the
knowledge we presently possess is not changeless, absolute truth. Truth
is found in life, and we will observe life within and around us in every
moment, ready to learn throughout our lives.
The
Third Mindfulness Training
Freedom of Thought
Aware
of the suffering brought about when we impose our views on others, we
are committed not to force others, even our children, by any means whatsoever-
such as authority, threat, money, propaganda, or indoctrination- to
adopt our views. We will respect the rights of others to be different
and to choose what to believe and how to decide. We will, however, help
others to renounce fanaticism and narrowness through compassionate dialogue.
The
Fourth Mindfulness Training
Awareness of Suffering
Aware
that looking deeply at the nature of suffering can help us develop compassion
and find ways out of suffering, we are determined not to avoid or close
our eyes before suffering. We are committed to finding ways, including
personal contact, images, and sounds, to be with those who suffer, so
we can understand their situation deeply and help them transform their
suffering into compassion, peace and joy.
The
Fifth Mindfulness Training
Simple, Healthy Living
Aware that
true happiness is rooted in peace, solidity, freedom and compassion,
and not in wealth or fame, we are determined not to take as the aim
of our life fame, profit, wealth, or sensual pleasure, nor to accumulate
wealth while millions are hungry and dying. We are committed to living
simply and sharing our time, energy and material resources with those
in need. We will practice mindful consuming, not using alcohol, drugs
or any other products that bring toxins into our own and the collective
body and consciousness.
The
Sixth Mindfulness Training
Dealing with Anger
Aware
that anger blocks communication and creates suffering, we are determined
to take care of the energy of anger when it arises and to recognize
and transform the seeds of anger that lie deep in our consciousness.
When anger comes up, we are determined not to do or say anything, but
to practice mindful breathing or mindful walking and acknowledge, embrace
and look deeply into our anger. We will learn to look with the eyes
of compassion at those we think are the cause of our anger.
The
Seventh Mindfulness Training
Dwelling Happily in the Present Moment
Aware that
life is available only in the present moment and that it is possible
to live happily in the here and now, we are committed to training ourselves
to live deeply each moment of daily life. We will try not to lose ourselves
in dispersion or be carried away by regrets about the past, worries
about the future, or craving, anger or jealousy of the present. We will
practice mindful breathing to come back to what is happening in the
present moment. We are determined to learn the art of mindful living
by touching the wondrous, refreshing and healing elements that are inside
and around us, and by nourishing seeds of joy, peace, love and understanding
in ourselves, thus facilitating the work of transformation and healing
in our consciousness.
The
Eight Mindfuless Training
Community and Communication
Aware
that the lack of communication always brings seperation and suffering,
we are committed to training ourselves in the practice of compassionate
listening and loving speech. We will learn to listen deeply without
judging or reacting and refrain from uttering words that can create
discord or cause the community to break. We will make every effort to
keep communications open and to reconcile and resolve all conflicts,
however small.
The
Ninth Mindfulness Training
Truthful and Loving Speech
Aware
that words can create suffering or happiness, we are committed to learning
to speak truthfully and constructively, using only words that inspire
hope or confidence. We are determined not to say untruthful things for
the hope and confidence. We are determined not to say untruthful things
for the sake of personal interest or to impress people, and not to utter
words that might cause division or hatred. We will not spread news that
we do not know to be certain or criticize or condemn things of which
we are not sure. We will do our best to speak out about situations of
injustice, even when doing so may threaten our safety.
The
Tenth Mindfulness Training
Protecting the Community of Mindful Living
Aware that our aim is the practice of understanding and compassioin,
we are determined not to use our community for personal gain or profit,
or transform it into a political instrument. A spiritual community should,
however, take a clear stand against opression and injustice, and should
strive to change the situation without engaging in partisan conflicts.
The
Eleventh Mindfulness Training
Right Livelihood
Aware that great violence and injustice have been done to our environment
and society, we are committed not to live with a vocation that is harmful
to humans and nature. We will do our best to select a livelihood that
helps realize our ideal of understanding and compassion. Aware of global
economic, political and social realities, we will behave responsibly
as consumers and as citizens, not investing in companies that deprive
others of their change to live.
The
Twelfth Mindfulness Training
Reverence for Life
Aware that much suffering is caused by war and conflict, we are determined
to cultivate nonviolence, understanding, and compassion in our daily
lives, to promote peace, education, mindful mediation, and reconciliation
with families, communities, nations and in the world. We are determined
not to kill and not to let others kill. We will diligently practice
deep looking with our community to discover better ways to protect life
and prevent war.
The
Thirteenth Mindfulness Training
Generosity
Aware of the suffering caused by exploitation, social injustice, stealing,
and oppression, we are committed to cultivating loving kindness and
learning ways to work for the well-being of others. We will practice
generosity by sharing our time, energy and material resources with those
who are in need. We are determined not to steal and not to possess anything
that should belong to others. We will respect the property of others,
but will try to prevent others from profiting from human suffering or
the suffering of others.
The
Fourteenth Mindfulness Training
Right Conduct
Aware that sexual relations motivated by craving cannot dissipate the
feeling of loneliness but will create more suffering, frustration, and
isolation, we are determined not to engage in sexual relations without
mutual understanding, love and a long-term commitment. In sexual relations,
we must be aware of future suffering that may be caused. We know that
to preserve the happiness of ourselves and others, we must respect the
rights are commitments of ourselves and others. We will do everything
in our power to protect children from sexual misconduct. We will be
fully aware of the responsibility of bringing new lives into the world,
and will meditate on the world into which we are bringing new beings.